We finally have a baby.
Aisling Erin was born last Monday 4-3-06 at 8:23 pm. She weighed 8 pounds 8 ounces and was 19 inches long. She is gorgeous and healthy and has made mom and dad so happy.
We went into the hospital on Sunday night around 8 pm to start the induction process. It was pretty exciting, stressful, and scary all at once. We didn't get much sleep, if any on Sunday night. I had nurses coming and going, Dr’s giving me Miso something or other every 4 hours, and the bed was really uncomfy and I was strapped to a fetal monitor, which kept falling off. Nothing too big happened during the night but by 5:30 am I was really starting to feel the contractions. We moved into LDR room #3 around 10 am or so and this is where I spent the rest of labor. Susan our midwife kept checking in on us throughout the day. It was pretty slow going for most of it. Susan was awesome though; she kept me from having to be on the monitors all day and really kept our options open. I was really worried about the pitocin thing, but it turns out I never needed it. I kept progressing and my body took over. They had a shower in the room, which was awesome, the water felt so good during the contractions. It was after my second shower around 6:30 pm that things really started to get going. I was getting really emotional and the pain was so intense, turns out I was in transition, which let me tell you is the worst part of labor. I was in so much pain and I was throwing up and hyperventilating on top of it. It came on so fast and strong, I don’t think any of us were prepared for it. Brian, Susan and the other nurses really kept it together and helped me through it. I don’t think I opened my eyes for the last two hours of delivery. When it came to the pushing it was pretty hard too, I must admit to screaming too. I never thought I would, but when it came down to it, I had no control over myself. I was tired and it really hurt, but she came after only 30 minutes or so of pushing, which is good because Susan thought it would be closer to 2 hours.
It was amazing when they put her on my chest. She was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. Brian and I were both sobbing. All the pain of the delivery was gone and I was absolutely euphoric. She was perfect and she was here. I will never forget how good it felt to hold her. She was totally awake and looking at everything. She fed really quickly too. They did all her tests after she was done feeding and never left my sight. She did so good during all of it.
I am really proud of how we all did. I stuck with it and managed to do it without an epidural or any pain medication. It was hard, but totally worth it. Brian was great all day and I had my buffalo totem that Ingrid made for me clutched in my hand for most of labor. I am so grateful for our awesome midwife. She really guided s through it all. My mom was there for the delivery too which was pretty cool and both sets of grandparents got to meet her that night, once things were cleaned up a bit of course. It was just a wonderful birth experience.
The recovery is going well too. I was pretty sore the first few days and it was hard to be in the hospital. Luckily we got a private room and Brian and I got to stay together with Aisling. It was really great to have his help, as it was really hard to stand up and he was always there for physical or emotional support. My back was in a million knots and everything was pretty tender. I am doing better now though. I feel I have turned the corner and should be back to normal soon. I am still a bit slow and tired of course, but feeling better.
As for Aisling, she is doing great. She has a bit of jaundice, but is feeding well and we are giving her lots of light, which should clear it up. We have another dr. appointment on Monday to make sure it is gone. She is the sweetest little thing. She is a good eater during the day, but a little too sleepy at night to get a lot of food. She loves to kick and stretch when we lay her on the changing table. She has even rolled on to her side from her back twice now. She isn’t supposed to do that until she is 3 months old. We got to watch her so she doesn’t roll off anything. I was hoping to not have that worry for a while. She also sucks her finger from time to time and she makes the cutest faces. She is just perfect. I love being her mom and her dad is so proud and happy too. It really is the best thing in the world. I am so happy and so in love with her.